6 Ways to Find Freedom from the Frenzy this Christmas

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Christmas is my favorite time of year, but it hasn’t always been that way. For years, I viewed December as a long list of obligations rather than a season to savor. Decorations, parties, gifts, events—it all felt overwhelming. As a homeschool mom, the pressure to make the holidays magical for my kids while keeping up with our homeschooling schedule added even more stress.

But here’s the thing: we are in control.

We decide what to include in our holiday celebrations. We set the tone for our homes and our hearts. The holidays don’t just happen—they’re shaped by our choices.

Still, it’s too easy to overfill our calendars without taking time to design the kind of Christmas we truly want—a Christ-centered one that focuses on family, gratitude, and the joy Jesus brings. It took years, but I’ve finally found freedom from the holiday frenzy and learned to create space for what truly matters, and I want to share that gift with you!

6 Simple Ways to Beat the Holiday Frenzy

1. List Your Worries
   Write down everything that worries you about the holidays. Is it the shopping, the hosting, or the endless to-do list? Getting it all on paper helps you identify the problem areas.
2. Ask “Why Does This Worry Me?”
   Be honest with yourself. Are you worried about meeting others’ expectations? Do you feel pressured to keep up with what other families are doing? Naming your fears helps you let go of them.
3. Make Hard Choices
   Once you’ve identified your worries, it’s time to let go of what doesn’t fit your family. Here are a few ideas:
   • Obligations: Commit to one or two meaningful gatherings. JUST SAY NO to the rest. Your sanity will thank you.
   • Gifts: Focus on a few thoughtful, meaningful gifts per family member instead of pouring all your energy (and money!) into mountains of presents. Prioritizing time together over things will not only make Christmas simpler, but set a wonderful example for your children.
   • Decorations: Only put up your favorite pieces. The rest can stay in the box or be donated.
   • Cards: Send cards to those who aren’t online and don’t see updates of your family regularly. Get your kids involved and have them sign their names or write a note inside. You can also serve your community by writing cards for senior citizens in local nursing homes or assisted living communities.
4. Write Down Your Plan
   Deep down, you probably already have an idea or two of what needs to change. Take a blank page and write, “How I’ll Simplify the Holidays,” then jot down your ideas. Don’t overthink it—just write!
5. Create Action Steps
   Knowing what to simplify is one thing; acting on it is quite another! Write down specific steps to implement your plan, such as shopping by a certain date or blocking out a quiet evening for family time. Having a strong, clear plan will help you follow through.
6. Focus on Your Soul, Not Just Your Schedule
   Christmas is more than just a season—it’s a celebration of Jesus. Ask yourself:
   • What is missing in my soul that makes me turn to busyness to fill the void?
   • What gift does Jesus want to give me and my family this Christmas? Am I willing to receive it?
   • How can I show gratitude for the freedom I have in Christ? How can I teach my kids this lesson, too?

Family: A Beautiful Gift from God

Our families, no matter what they look like or how they are formed, are a beautiful gift from God. As parents, we have been given the responsibility of stewarding that gift of family by prioritizing God and service to others during the holidays (and the rest of the year!). As homeschool parents, we have the opportunity to incorporate acts of love and service into our lessons, and what a wonderful gift that is!

This season is a reminder that we don’t need to fill every moment with activity. The most precious gift we can give our families is our presence—whether that’s playing a board game by the fire, sipping hot cocoa while watching Christmas lights, baking delicious Christmas goodies, or pausing to pray together.

BONUS: Take a “Mom Moment”

Treat yourself to a “silent night.” After the kids are in bed, turn off the screens, light a candle, and spend 15 minutes in quiet reflection. Read this verse and meditate on the angel’s announcement:

"Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord." - Luke 2:10-11

In the stillness, let the peace of Christ fill your heart.

This Christmas, let’s focus on what truly matters: Jesus, family, and love. By simplifying our schedules and prioritizing our hearts, we can create a season that’s not only manageable but deeply meaningful.

Walking in Him,
Tricia Goyer

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