Getting Started: New Preschool Homeschool Parents

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“Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.”
— Proverbs 22:6

I first started homeschooling because my husband, John, and I had met homeschooling families and immediately saw something different in their children. There was a peace, a confidence, and a strong connection between parent and child. We liked what we saw—so we took a leap of faith.

That was back in 1993 with our oldest child, and over the years, we’ve graduated three kids from homeschool high school. But then came a twist I didn’t expect: through adoption, we began homeschooling again—this time with little ones, ages five, three, and two.

Starting over gave me perspective. I realized how much time, money, and worry I’d wasted early on trying to “get it right.” So friend, if you’re new to homeschooling preschoolers, take a deep breath—I’m here to help you skip the stress and start with peace.

7 Encouraging Tips for New Preschool Homeschool Parents

1. There’s No Such Thing as a Perfect Curriculum

I promise you—there’s no single “right” curriculum. The best choice is one that fits your family’s rhythm and sparks joy. Personally, I love Sonlight because it centers around beautiful books and includes hands-on learning that keeps my little ones engaged. But your family might thrive with something different.

The real goal? To help your child love learning. If you do that, you’re already succeeding!

“Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance.” — Proverbs 1:5

2. Don’t Compare Your Kids to Others

One of my kids read at age three. Another at six. And you know what? They both turned out just fine.

God created your child uniquely. Trust His timing, not the timelines you see on social media or hear from others.

“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” — Psalm 139:14

3. Let Their Interests Lead the Way

Do they love dinosaurs? Trains? Baking? Build your learning around what lights up their eyes. One of my favorite resources was Five In A Row—you can combine reading, science, and art around one exciting theme. Interest-led learning lays the foundation for curiosity and creativity.

4. Ditch the Pressure to “Socialize” and Focus on Meaningful Friendships

I used to run myself ragged signing up my kids for every team and class to make sure they were “socialized.” What I’ve learned? A few deep friendships with like-hearted families are more valuable than a dozen surface-level activities.

Look for fellow believers with similar values and goals, and make time to do life together.

5. Use Free Online Resources (but Don’t Get Overwhelmed)

We’re in a golden age of homeschool resources—Pinterest, blogs, and free printables abound! Just search “free preschool homeschool printables” and get ready to be inspired. Pick one or two fun activities a day and let go of the pressure to do it all.

6. Get Off the Couch (or Away from the Table) and Learn Through Life

Preschoolers aren’t meant to sit still for long stretches. For every few minutes of table time, follow it up with hands-on learning—cooking, gardening, nature walks, music, pretend play. Life IS the classroom!

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord.” — Colossians 3:23

7. Keep a Simple Memory Box

You’ll be amazed by how quickly these early years fly by. Create a “preschool memory box” and tuck away drawings, photos, and favorite book lists. Not only will it bless your heart years down the road, but it’s also a helpful habit for future record-keeping. Who knows, maybe you’ll share it one day with another new homeschooler!

5 Simple Prayers for New Preschool Homeschool Moms

1. Lord, help me to enjoy the gift of these early years.
   Even when the messes pile up and the day feels long, give me eyes to see the beauty.
2. Give me patience when I feel overwhelmed.
   Remind me that I don’t need to be perfect—just present.
3. Help me speak words that build up, not tear down.
   Let my tone reflect Your grace, even when I’m tired.
4. Show me how to teach through love, not pressure.
   Help me release expectations and trust Your plan for my child’s learning.
5. Remind me that this calling is sacred.
   Let me never forget that raising and teaching my children is Kingdom work.

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Friend, You Don’t Have to Have It All Figured Out

If you’re feeling nervous or unsure about this homeschooling journey, that’s okay. You’re stepping into something holy. These early days of learning together will shape more than just your child’s education—they’ll shape their heart.

So lean in, pray often, and know that God walks this road with you.

You’ve got this. And more importantly—God’s got you.

With love,
Tricia

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